Jerks

[The Immortal Watch Dog]

Originally Posted by erndogzetroc

wow.. you're too honest and that's a little too much information. you might want to start a private convo with someone(s) in the forum and talk to him/her about that stuff. just lookin' out for ya.

to be perfectly honest maybe getting this type of public reaction will help him

[FireShadow]

Originally Posted by erndogzetroc

wow.. you're too honest and that's a little too much information. you might want to start a private convo with someone(s) in the forum and talk to him/her about that stuff. just lookin' out for ya.

it's not i'm telling people my social security card lol xD

but thanks for advice anyway

[The Immortal Watch Dog]

Fire Shadow..I'm not denying you go through your fair share of douches bags being hard on you

but it can't be that..you're almost a quarter of a century old and still thinking like an 11 year old..

I honestly don't know what to say beyond, you need to take a good long look at yourself in the mirror and decide how you want your life to play out..if you want to be miserable, alone and bent out of shape stuck at a dead end job and generally just going through life always about to explode..

or if you want to actually enjoy yourself - no amount of us giving you advice can do anything..ultimately you need to make the decision

and you need to make it soon for you're own sake because..god damn

[FireShadow]

It's not that hopeless IWD. These are just the moments i choose to share because I try to rant when I am annoyed. I don't think I think like an 11 year old, though I do think I am too oversensitive. Also yes i am a bit immature, i'm still scared to live life like an adult. Alot of it is because of my stunted growth as I said in other thread but I guess in the end that is just another excuse.

[erndogzetroc]

Originally Posted by FireShadow

It's not that hopeless IWD. These are just the moments i choose to share because I try to rant when I am annoyed. I don't think I think like an 11 year old, though I do think I am too oversensitive. Also yes i am a bit immature, i'm still scared to live life like an adult. Alot of it is because of my stunted growth as I said in other thread but I guess in the end that is just another excuse.

Damn I must seem like a total disaster to people -.-

yup you do sound like a train wreck... don't fret though there's hope, 23 is young. i'm actually older than you but not by much (damn you IWD for the half century old comment. now i'm depressed).

how's your job treating you? is it a low-skill job or a job that requires a degree?

[FireShadow]

My uncle raised me as someone meek and subservient because he literally cannot get along with people that don't get along with his views. So I was never taught how to be a man. All I was taught was how to get angry and have tantrums when things don't go your way.

Anyway i'll try to get better but i feel hopeless. plus it will not happen immediately.

thanks for advice everyone.

[BMC1994]

23 o.O Wow you people are fossils j/k

Anyway fireshadow

your guardians will never be able to teach you everything because its weird akward(imagine learning to flirt from your mom 'shudder') or they simply dont know it themselves.

Puberty shouldve already taught you to disregard any morals/lessons your parents tried to give you

But in all seriousness, you would be alot less frustrated if you stopped focusing on others and finally pay attention to what you yourself (could possibly) do.

Who spends their days looking at jerks getting everything they want, idk how you managed to do that for a full 23 years but i wouldve went crazy after the first one.

Occupy yourself with stuff, hobbys and friends you actually enjoy/make you happy and you wont even notice these jerks anymore because they arent important.

To summarize and prevent this becoming the great text wall of china, stop caring so much about what others do/get, and care more about what you can do/get.

If you know youre oversensitive why not try letting atleast the little things 'go' when you feel your about to have an tantrum just take deep breath in and then breath out and think ( kinda what you tell an 5 year old, but it works, belief me i used to do it myself it works wonders)

Also learn to 'examine' people. People are divers even here on this little forum. They all have different 'tones' to their voices some people always sound sad others always sound upbeat(even when they are the opposite). Even things that we write can have an 'tone'(we dont literally hear it but the wording used gives a certain impression). Some people naturally sound (and write) caring/loving/happy and other people sound(and write quite mean and blunt(like IWD :P ) even when they are trying to help people.

Edit:

dammit it has become a text wall

[WishfulFairie]

FireShadow is 23.........?
Holy-?!

[BMC1994]

Originally Posted by WishfulFairie

FireShadow is 23.........?
Holy-?!

ikr , (wouldnt that make him too old for a fairy god mother?)

[WishfulFairie]

Originally Posted by BMC1994

ikr , (wouldnt that make him too old for a fairy god mother?)

Well no it doesn't but he needs an older fairy godmother.
I'm too young to be his.
IWD will be his fairy godmomma

Spoiler:

[ItachiKisame]

I feel old compared to a lot of people on here as well since im just about at my mid 20s. .___.

[erndogzetroc]

Originally Posted by ItachiKisame

I feel old compared to a lot of people on here as well since im just about at my mid 20s. .___.

yah you and me should be in wheelchairs. i'm a late bloomer when it comes to manga. i picked up manga less than 3 yrs ago and now i have quite a few. i never got into this whole nerd culture thing though and i'm the only one in my immediate circle who even reads this stuff. it's sorta a deep dark secret. i just like reading manga.

i'm kinda weirded out by the op though.. he does talk like a 6yr old-- e.g. "black person kage"-- i mean who would say that but a 6yr old. he doesn't seem like a real person too, i dunno... if he's real i hope he figures stuff out. real quick. i would root for him.

[ItachiKisame]

Originally Posted by erndogzetroc

yah you and me should be in wheelchairs. i'm a late bloomer when it comes to manga. i picked up manga less than 3 yrs ago and now i have quite a few. i never got into this whole nerd culture thing though and i'm the only one in my immediate circle who even reads this stuff. it's sorta a deep dark secret. i just like reading manga.

i'm kinda weirded out by the op though.. he does talk like a 6yr old-- e.g. "black person kage"-- i mean who would say that but a 6yr old. he doesn't seem like a real person too, i dunno... if he's real i hope he figures stuff out. real quick. i would root for him.

lol Indeed and we should be in retirement homes. Same I didn't read the manga from Naruto or whatever til 09 I did watch the anime on tv when it came on there in fact I did watch anime since I was little though there were a lot of anime/manga I didn't know or started watching till I was much older. Well nothing wrong with reading manga even when your a adult I have some of guy friends older then me and they enjoy reading manga as much as I do.

Well people act out in whatever way cause they usually can't help it its just how we are all made.

[The Immortal Watch Dog]

Originally Posted by WishfulFairie

Well no it doesn't but he needs an older fairy godmother.
I'm too young to be his.
IWD will be his fairy godmomma

Spoiler:

you mean fairy drill Sergeant.

Originally Posted by ItachiKisame

I feel old compared to a lot of people on here as well since im just about at my mid 20s. .___.

so I'm guessing we're probably close age wise. I was thinking it should fall on people in his age bracket and above to give him advice on this matter..but it might be a more lasting effect on him if he heard it from teenagers (because a few in this thread seem to be saying more or less what we are only profoundly less "oh my god..what the hell?" in our tone)

plus the psychological blow in getting life lessons from someone you're almost ten years younger then

[ItachiKisame]

Probably im at least a year older then he is. Well for some people its hard everyone gets angry at certain things for a reason and can't help themselves. It is indeed good getting some advise from people to help them though depending on what it is it can take time.

As to the question on the rep I got im not sure why my rep power is 0 ive been wondering myself. And it sucks since I can't give any reps to anyone.

[Hando Craap]

Originally Posted by ItachiKisame

I feel old compared to a lot of people on here as well since im just about at my mid 20s. .___.

So I must be ancient then ?!!?

[ItachiKisame]

I guess so depending.lol

[ItachiKisame]

All I know is I had up to 7 in rep power then it dropped all the way down to 0 for some reason and ever since then I couldn't give rep. And possibly if so there must of been some kind of krytonite to take it away.lol

[ItachiKisame]

Perhaps it did.=P

[Hando Craap]

Originally Posted by ItachiKisame

I guess so depending.lol

check my page...and yes that's my real age I have pics in the user image thread that proves it...lol