Vent thread.

[l3thall3g3nd]

He's coming over tomorrow, and I let my parents know. When he was like 13 he overdosed on oxy and when had his stomach pumped for popping pills while he was drinking. I have no issues with puffin' on some wacky tobaccy sometimes, but it seriously is NOT good to have habits like that. I can't help it, I can't tell my parents. They won't listen. I don't know what to do.

Make your parents listen this is your twin were talking about you can't just let this slide she's your flesh and blood I know your going through a tough time but suck it up and end this for your sisters sake, she might not know it but your sister needs you more than ever especially if her parents won't take no notice about her activity. Think of anyway you can think of to help her and do it I gave you a few suggestions if you don't like them then think of your own but don't let this slide.

[Ryuuko]

Originally Posted by Shikamaru Nara

I've really never had to cope with serious loss before. Until now, nothing's really ever happened to me. And now all of a sudden everyone's dying and it kind of just hit me like a tsunami of problems crashing down on my empire. It seems like at every turn, something is there telling me "Oh, you're good now? No!" It's harsh. :/

I think it's the skater stereotype. I'd like to think of myself as a pretty good guy, though. P: And my dad grew up in the days when weed wasn't laced with a bunch of synthetic shit and people were all up to no good. It's still like that and I'm sometimes up to no good, but he's been asking me if I am on drugs since I was 10 years old. I just feel like he's TOO hard on me is all. Like he doesn't appreciate the good I do too.

Always seems like that, doesn't it? Everything's going good and then life goes "lolnope". It is harsh, but you'll get through it. It can be hard not to dwell on all the BS - I know, because I do it too - so what I try to do is focus on my many blessings instead of my problems, because it's easy to take things for granted. Puts me in a more positive mindset and keeps me grounded.

My parents had me later in life, so they raised me with a more old-fashioned set of values than I think a lot of parents did with my peers (at least in some ways). As a kid and young teenager I followed their rules mostly by the letter because every time I got in trouble it would give me anxiety. As I grew older and times changed they became more open-minded, which was good, but I understand how you feel when you say you think they're disappointed in you. They might seem to focus on the negative things, but they have to be proud of you for the good you do, even if they don't always vocalize it.

[Kakashi Hatake_Yamato]

I hate idiots and trolls.
If they're banned, they should stay banned.

[ItachiKisame]

You and me both.

["The Batman"]

I'm guessing you're high-school/college age based on what you said.

Originally Posted by Shikamaru Nara

My grandfather has just been diagnosed with cancer.
You're nearing the age where people around you will die more often, it's a sad fact, but it is something you'll need to deal with. The thing you need to do is make sure you communicate with your grandfather at least every week and make sure he knows you care. Cancer isn't a death sentence though, remember that, it is more likely he can survive and have no further issues.
My grandmother is having heart surgery. Again just make sure your grandmother knows you care. She'll be fine though, heart surgeries are nearly routine now.
I lost all motivation to do anything, aside from get an A in math because it's my grandfather's favorite subject. He's a college professor. A real genius, too. That's good. There aren't many problems in life that we, ourselves, can fix very easily. All you have to do is go balls to the wall. Just realize that if you can't get motivated while life is simpler, it's going to be even worse down the road. But it's probably just a phase, high school kids (later on), and even college kids early on
My old camp counselor/neighbor is dead, I grew up with her. Again, life is an awful thing. The older you get the more people will leave you life, but you need to understand that more people will also enter it. And they won't be those crappy high school connections that usually occur, these will be actual friends that will stay with you for life.
My friend's grandfather died on his birthday. That's sad.
My other friend's grandmother died recently. Sad too, but nearly everyone goes through this, it's not something to dwell on even though it's really sad.
I'm lonely. Everyone is, but not everyone admits it.
Life is just a drag. It's as fun as you make it. It'll always be crappy, but you've got to have a more positive outlook, or look for a way to make life into a positive.
Friends blow me off all the time. Another thing that happens when people get older. After high school a lot of "friends" will blow you off. You gotta remember everyone has their own life, and they might not be able to always hang out. It happens to everyone, just a side effect of school and how weak SOME of the relationships you form are.
My sister is dating a drug addict. (I'm sort of friends with this kid, but I don't like him for my sister.) Just make sure she's smart enough to to make bad decisions. Just because someone is seeing an adict doesn't mean they'll always take part, as long as their smart and have willpower.
My sister started lying to my mom out of nowhere, I think she's doing things I don't like, to keep it brief. How old is she? Girls usually lie more than guys do, especially if she's transitioning from a tween to a teen.
My parents think I'm a burnout delinquent. Make it your goal to prove them wrong. You should hate the feeling of them thinking that, so you need to take that and turn it into motivation to do anything in your power to do differently. If you do that and they still don't think differently, then it's time for you to just do what you think is good for you. You're opinion is the only one that matters, especially as you get older.
I think I'm a disappointment to my entire family.
As I said above, it's up to you to rid yourself of that feeling, and do everything in your power to never feel like that again.
So yeah. If anything, I just need someone to talk to.

Advice from your friendly neighborhood Bat.

[Leafy]

Damn Bro...I'd talk to you but I don't really have much time.

I'll pm you tomorrow.

[The Second Pornkage]

It seems the sky blue voice inside your head's a common thing O.o

[Maikeru D. Shinigami]

The things that bother me seem so petty compared to these things.

[CrackFat]

I lost 3 horses recently, 1 was sent to slaughter and 1 was put up for sale.
The other one had owners that were too demanding, exhausting me in combination with my internship causing me to become completely dysfunctional. So I was forced to quit horsebackriding alltogether.
I've had to deal with a boyfriend lying about using drugs, doing it all behind my back.
Some of my friends are treating me like crap, they have new ones to worry about.
I almost failed my internship because I was too depressed to do my work properly.
Also my boss is a complete douche, assigning me to do all the dirty work as an unpaid intern.
My brother is hanging with the wrong crowd, selling cocaine.
My dad turned 65. I fear he might get cancer every day.
My scooter broke down several times, each time causing me to get stranded in the middle of nowhere at night, no lights around. Having to walk home sucks.

And what's worst? My cat keeps sucking up to my mom, gahhh!

[Obito]

People who go into a thread, and post stupid pictures that makes you say to yourself "Is this dude on crack?"
I have a low tolerance for dumb people.
I don't like people who judge because their friends don't like them and if you don't like me? I don't like you.
Trolls who think they're funny and cute.
I don't like people that think they're better than other people, even if they like me.
I hate girls who are 16-17 who act like they're 10 or something.
People who say they don't care, if you don't care, then DON'T care, saying you "don't care" just shows you care.

Life is stupid and sometimes I wish I wasn't alive, I hate having such a ridiculous low tolerance for people who act like morons, I think most of all. I hate myself.

[Kiseki]

"Vent (m)
Een kerel, een man (wordt zowel positieve als in negatieve zin gebruikt)

Een toffe gozer, een jofele vent.
Nee, die man van mij, dat is een eitje, een vent van niks!"

Translation:
"A guy, a man (used in positive as well as in negative ways)

A cool dude, a popular guy.
No, that man of mine, thats a wimp, a guy who can't do anything!"


From: http://nl.wiktionary.org/wiki/vent

So that is what a 'vent' is to Dutch people
Now, where are these handsome vents?! D:<

Reads Shika's post: Oh damn. I hope your grandparents get well soon
And there's a lot of people who can honestly tell you that you are NOT a disappointment.

[Kakashi Hatake_Yamato]

was a pretty good day today
but when i checked to see the waitlist thing...
NUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
THEY FLIPPN DROPPED MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEee