I have a problem, with a girl.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 10:33 AM

Well, first off, I think I kinda like her.. She's evil to me, but, at the same time, she just.. Confuses the gun outta me, she'll do something mean, then hug me? I stand there looking so freaking retarded, because I don't say anything, I don't know what to say to that, I mean, she does mean things to me but after she hugs me? What the hell? I don't get it, I think she likes me but, I seriously don't get the mean things she's doing and still.. Hug me, just mindbangs me so hard. I don't know, maybe someone can tell me to put me out of my misery.

Thanks.

Kyūbi no Yōko · 12-10-2012, 10:37 AM

It's a way of apologizing and showing love.
Hugging isn't really a big deal, maybe she likes you, I can't judge.

Depends on what stuff she does to you.

Souret · 12-10-2012, 10:39 AM

I'm mean to everyone I know then I just hug them. I don't really know that much about your situation but being mean doesn't mean she doesn't like you.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 10:40 AM

She always does this, start off flirting, I ignore her and then she basically beats my a-hole, then calls me every curse word under the sun, then hugs me.. I GET the flirting part, but.. Why the evil stuff? I JUST DON'T GET IT..

Kiseki · 12-10-2012, 10:41 AM

From the perspective of a mean lady:
The more I'm mean... the more I like you, the more I'm real with you.
Most of my closest friends and my boyfriend said so that I can be VERY mean.
But that doesn't mean I actually want to be mean to them.
Sometimes I'm just excited or in the moment for some reason and say stuff instantly.
Maybe she's just an excited socially awkward penguin like me? I think she likes you.
But its wise to tell her that she should tone down those mean things she does/says.

Being mean is the same as farting. It means she's comfortable around you. (little too much)

Go for it, you have nothing to lose anyway!

Roy · 12-10-2012, 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kiseki

From the perspective of a mean lady:
The more I'm mean... the more I like you, the more I'm real with you.
Most of my closest friends and my boyfriend said so that I can be VERY mean.
But that doesn't mean I actually want to be mean to them.
Sometimes I'm just excited or in the moment for some reason and say stuff instantly.
Maybe she's just an excited socially awkward penguin like me? I think she likes you.
But its wise to tell her that she should tone down those mean things she does/says.

Being mean is the same as farting. It means she's comfortable around you. (little too much)

Go for it, you have nothing to lose anyway!

Ya, my soul. /headdesk

Hinata126 · 12-10-2012, 10:45 AM

Mmmmh maybe she likes you but feels insecure when you ignore here so she is mean.
But I'm no expert...

Maybe you should just ask here about it and get it over with.

Souret · 12-10-2012, 10:47 AM

I agree with Kiseki completely. Just ask her to tone it down or something.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 10:52 AM

Umm, I really can't do that, every emotion I give to her has conciqunences, unless you're willing to take an emotional tea bag to the head, I'm not gonna tell her. "Hey.. I don't like that you do that to me.. I just want my space." that's me saying to her "Get the hell away from me." she'll just rage in front of me and my friends, and the whole university would hear, she already did that twice, and I'm not standing there looking at her screaming at me, in front of my friends and the whole campus until she cools down. It's ridiculously annoying and I look like someone standing there seeing a ghost.. Really not my idea of "Keeping your sanity."

Souret · 12-10-2012, 10:57 AM

you said you ignore her flirting try responding to that then maybe she won't be mean if she is already getting the attention she wanted.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 10:59 AM

I guess I can do that, do I.. Tell her she looks pretty? Tell her shoes look amazing, tell her she has nice hair that makes me wanna sleep on it, tell her stuff like that?

Souret · 12-10-2012, 11:04 AM

little more subtle than that but kinda

Roy · 12-10-2012, 11:05 AM

Lol, right. Okay, thank you, thanks for all who gave me ideas, I think I know what to do now. C:

Muffintop · 12-10-2012, 11:13 AM

All I can say is, girls can be crazy. And if she's pulling those tricks out of the hat now, she's probably got more up her sleeve for once she finally reels you in. I'd be wary of her, honestly. Just be sure that you actually want to be with her and that she suits you and your personality.

Don't change everything you do and love for one girl who isn't respecting you from the get-go.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 11:15 AM

Are you saying she's gonna be worse, if... I decide to be with her in a relationship, possibly be more... Than what I explained? God.

Muffintop · 12-10-2012, 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Roy

Are you saying she's gonna be worse, if... I decide to be with her in a relationship, possibly be more... Than what I explained? God.

If you really like her, go for it. However, if she progressively gets worse as time passes, my advice would be to cut your losses before you get too involved.

Roy · 12-10-2012, 11:24 AM

Ya, lol and get cut myself probably.

Kyūbi no Yōko · 12-10-2012, 11:39 AM

What? She beats you?
That's abusive. >_>

Are you a boy or a girl?

Roy · 12-10-2012, 11:49 AM

I'm a guy, she doesn't beat me, she.. I guess, sometimes hits me lol.

Maruko · 12-10-2012, 11:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Roy

I'm a guy, she doesn't beat me, she.. I guess, sometimes hits me lol.

It means she likes you.

Go on, have babies with her!

12-10-2012, 10:33 AM	#1
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	I have a problem, with a girl. Well, first off, I think I kinda like her.. She's evil to me, but, at the same time, she just.. Confuses the gun outta me, she'll do something mean, then hug me? I stand there looking so freaking retarded, because I don't say anything, I don't know what to say to that, I mean, she does mean things to me but after she hugs me? What the hell? I don't get it, I think she likes me but, I seriously don't get the mean things she's doing and still.. Hug me, just mindbangs me so hard. I don't know, maybe someone can tell me to put me out of my misery. Thanks.

12-10-2012, 10:37 AM	#2
Kyūbi no Yōko Special Jonin Candidate Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 3,432 Rep Power: 10	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. It's a way of apologizing and showing love. Hugging isn't really a big deal, maybe she likes you, I can't judge. Depends on what stuff she does to you. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Welcome to reality. ~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~\|\|~ universe.

12-10-2012, 10:39 AM	#3
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Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. She always does this, start off flirting, I ignore her and then she basically beats my a-hole, then calls me every curse word under the sun, then hugs me.. I GET the flirting part, but.. Why the evil stuff? I JUST DON'T GET IT..

12-10-2012, 10:41 AM	#5
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Souret Special Jonin Candidate Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Little place called Wonderland Posts: 5,600 Rep Power: 14 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. I agree with Kiseki completely. Just ask her to tone it down or something. __________________ Just Call Me Intellectual Hoe⚜ -JAFL ScrappY Approves! Life Lives, Life Dies, Life Laughs, Life Cries, Life Gives Up and Life Tries. But Life Looks Different Through Everyones Eyes. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Shoukry my Sexy S Sister Amazon my ganster Sister To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

12-10-2012, 10:52 AM	#9
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. Umm, I really can't do that, every emotion I give to her has conciqunences, unless you're willing to take an emotional tea bag to the head, I'm not gonna tell her. "Hey.. I don't like that you do that to me.. I just want my space." that's me saying to her "Get the hell away from me." she'll just rage in front of me and my friends, and the whole university would hear, she already did that twice, and I'm not standing there looking at her screaming at me, in front of my friends and the whole campus until she cools down. It's ridiculously annoying and I look like someone standing there seeing a ghost.. Really not my idea of "Keeping your sanity."

12-10-2012, 10:57 AM	#10
Souret Special Jonin Candidate Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Little place called Wonderland Posts: 5,600 Rep Power: 14 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. you said you ignore her flirting try responding to that then maybe she won't be mean if she is already getting the attention she wanted. __________________ Just Call Me Intellectual Hoe⚜ -JAFL ScrappY Approves! Life Lives, Life Dies, Life Laughs, Life Cries, Life Gives Up and Life Tries. But Life Looks Different Through Everyones Eyes. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Shoukry my Sexy S Sister Amazon my ganster Sister To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

12-10-2012, 10:59 AM	#11
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. I guess I can do that, do I.. Tell her she looks pretty? Tell her shoes look amazing, tell her she has nice hair that makes me wanna sleep on it, tell her stuff like that?

12-10-2012, 11:04 AM	#12
Souret Special Jonin Candidate Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Little place called Wonderland Posts: 5,600 Rep Power: 14 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. little more subtle than that but kinda __________________ Just Call Me Intellectual Hoe⚜ -JAFL ScrappY Approves! Life Lives, Life Dies, Life Laughs, Life Cries, Life Gives Up and Life Tries. But Life Looks Different Through Everyones Eyes. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Shoukry my Sexy S Sister Amazon my ganster Sister To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

12-10-2012, 11:05 AM	#13
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. Lol, right. Okay, thank you, thanks for all who gave me ideas, I think I know what to do now. C:

12-10-2012, 11:13 AM	#14
Muffintop Special Jonin Candidate Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Terra Incognita Posts: 17,263 Rep Power: 22	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. All I can say is, girls can be crazy. And if she's pulling those tricks out of the hat now, she's probably got more up her sleeve for once she finally reels you in. I'd be wary of her, honestly. Just be sure that you actually want to be with her and that she suits you and your personality. Don't change everything you do and love for one girl who isn't respecting you from the get-go. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Last edited by Muffintop; 12-10-2012 at 11:17 AM.

12-10-2012, 11:15 AM	#15
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. Are you saying she's gonna be worse, if... I decide to be with her in a relationship, possibly be more... Than what I explained? God.

12-10-2012, 11:24 AM	#17
Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. Ya, lol and get cut myself probably.

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Roy Apprentice Genin Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Florida Posts: 190 Rep Power: 0 Member's Picture Albums	Re: I have a problem, with a girl. I'm a guy, she doesn't beat me, she.. I guess, sometimes hits me lol.

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