Have has someone ever been Un-attractive to you?

[mrsticky005]

Originally Posted by Anru Uzumaki

exactly

and there those who say:

I ahve boyfriend I don't love you
go away why are you looking at me.
I know you love me just say it
I would never wana hang out with you

at same they say those thinks they trie to come even closer to you.

they just wait for us man to make frist move like its realy easy for us to make the first move.

Dude to be honest I think you just misread the situation.
Even if you didn't it's best to just ignore it and move on.

[Kiseki]

Originally Posted by mrsticky005

It seems as if personality matters. Just not the way we often think it does.

So be cool because even though you can't never
make someone love you you can ALWAYS make someone hate you.

So true.
I find it more difficult to get liked than getting disliked.
Getting disliked is pretty easy beans.
Because people are obviously focused on negative things.

[Anru Uzumaki]

Originally Posted by mrsticky005

Dude to be honest I think you just misread the situation.
Even if you didn't it's best to just ignore it and move on.

yes i know but my point is that there will always moments like that but thing is instead of searching for love its better till the love finds us. when you think like why did I fell in love with in the first place then that means you have searced for love but in fact it was only a mirror of the real one when you fall in love with someone you didn't love when you met her or afhter you became friend with her that means that the love has found you, what trying to see is don't think about this all the much one day or another you will find the one, and all those feelings what you mentioned in you're post is just normal those feelings are the thinks that make us different then ohter liveing on this planet.

there isn't realy a real answer about love but its no good to think about it just wait till you see it with you're own eyes.

[mrsticky005]

Originally Posted by Kiseki

So true.
I find it more difficult to get liked than getting disliked.
Getting disliked is pretty easy beans.
Because people are obviously focused on negative things.

True but at the same time a lot of guys will stay with
a women with a really lousy personality just cause she's "hot"
until they finally realize it's not worth it anymore.

It's almost like women who stay with their abusive husbands
except that women stay because they feel trapped.
Quite often the abusive husband makes them feel that way.

Though women can abusive to men too. Both verbally and physically.
But that's not to put down women but just to say we can all be
jerks to each other. The important thing is be cool and not a jerk.

And support the Federal Wooster Reserve.

Originally Posted by Anru Uzumaki

yes know but my point is that there will always moments like that but thing is instead of searching for love its better till the love finds us. when you think like why did I fell in love with in the first place then that means you have searced for love but in fact it was only a mirror of the real one when you fall in love with someone you didn't love when you met her or afhter you became friend with her that means that the love has found you, what trying to see is don't think about this all the much one day or another you will find the one, and all those feelings what you mentioned in you're post is just normal those feelings are the thinks that make us different then ohter liveing on this planet.

there isn't realy a real answer about love but its no good to think about it just wait till you see it with you're own eyes.

Just waiting for love to happen would be a lot easier
if there wasn't all this social expectation for everyone
to be in a relationship. As if being single was a disease.

And it's not like I can say "I'm not interested in having
a relationship" because I'd be lying.

I'm just not interested in working towards one!

--Which probably explains why I'm not in one.

Oh well.

[Bacon]

And it's not like I can say "I'm not interested in having
a relationship" because I'd be lying.

I'm just not interested in working towards one!

Story of my life, :P

That said, not really sure how to respond to this thread. Are we talking about sexy chairs, wooster's rep addiction, ugly women turning hot or hot turning ugly?

Well in my case there's one girl who wasn't ugly to me,but honestly wasn't super pretty either. Then I got to know her and bam, she instantly became more appealing outside and in :P

As for the case of the innately pretty becoming ugly, all my highschool crushes. I saw this chick named angel 5 years after freshman year and thought to myself, what was I thinking?

[Vornmusion]

I don't have moments of "Why was I attracted to this person". I'm too mentally grounded for that.

However, I find my companion more attractive after we become a couple. Nothing physically changes about them, but mentally I find myself more attracted to them as we know each other on the more personal levels.

So following that, yes; every person I've been with becomes less attractive to me once we're not together.

[Wooster]

You just made this thread because your efforts to get me rep have FAILED Muhahahahaha!

Anywho, yes to both. I have found people I once found attractive no longer so and vice versa.
Generally, how I think of person affects how attractive they seem even if completely a clinical evaluation of their appearance. But as they say beauty is in the eye of my laser beam.